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The holidays can be joyful, fun, and full of laughter…but they can also be chaotic and overwhelming. Between juggling end-of-the-year work projects, holiday parties, gift giving, and winter activities, you might find yourself in need of some peace and quiet. But how can you find any tranquility with this flurry of events and activities? How can you possibly step away when there are so many demands on your time? Here are 10 ways to find your calm during the hectic holiday season.

1. Start your day with mindfulness

Dedicate a few minutes each morning for meditation or deep breathing exercises to set a calm tone for the day.

2. Prioritize self-care

Make time for activities that recharge you, such as taking a hot bath, reading a book, walking outside, or writing in a journal.

3. Learn to say no

Don’t feel obligated to attend every event or take on every task. It’s okay to decline and prioritize your well-being.

4. Create a calming environment

Fill your space with soothing scents, soft lighting, and relaxing music or an audiobook to create an atmosphere of tranquility.

5. Practice gratitude

Take a moment each day to reflect on the things you’re grateful for, such as your health, loved ones, and the simple pleasures in life.

6. Set boundaries

Establish clear boundaries with your time and energy. Learn to say “no” to things that drain you, and prioritize what truly matters.

7. Embrace simplicity

Simplify your holiday traditions and activities. Focus on what brings you joy and let go of unnecessary stressors.

8. Disconnect from technology

Take breaks from screens and social media to give your mind (and your eyes!) a break. Engage in offline activities that bring you peace and enjoyment.

9. Get moving

Engage in physical activity to release stress and boost your mood. Go for a walk, do yoga, or participate in a favorite sport.

10. Seek support

Reach out to friends, family, or a therapist for continuous guidance and support during the busy holiday season.

Finding calm and practicing a little self-care is possible with the right strategies, even when you’re busier than ever. By establishing a few intentional practices, you can navigate the holiday season with more peace and tranquility. Remember to take care of yourself and prioritize your wellbeing amid the chaos, and you’ll be able to enjoy the holidays in a more relaxed, joyful, and authentic way.

MARGARET SMITH IS A CAREER COACH, AUTHOR, INSIGHTS® DISCOVERY (AND DEEPER DISCOVERY) LICENSED PRACTITIONER, AND FOUNDER OF UXL. SHE HOSTS WORKSHOPS FOR PEOPLE WHO NEED CAREER OR PERSONAL GUIDANCE. 
CHECK OUT MARGARET’S ONLINE LEADERSHIP COURSE. 

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Many leaders achieved their status through hard work, commitment, and perfectionism. Generally, these are positive attributes that can help lead to success. However, you can have “too much of a good thing,” particularly when it comes to perfectionism.

If your perfectionism helps you catch project flaws or edit reports, great. If it causes you to constantly look over your team’s shoulders, criticize, and take a narrow view of how things should be done…not so great.

How can these micromanaging tendencies hurt your team? Let’s talk about 5 negative effects and how to avoid them.

Stifled Creativity and Innovation

If your team is restricted to always doing things your way and from your perspective, you miss a huge opportunity for creativity and innovation. As a leader, you might have ideas about certain projects or initiatives, but you don’t necessarily have to voice those ideas right away. Instead, allow your team some time and space to brainstorm ideas and come up with potential solutions. This lets them feel empowered and invested in the project, and they just might come up with the company’s next million-dollar idea!

Lack of Problem Solving

When leaders micromanage, their team members start looking over their shoulders. They wonder if they’re doing things the right way, and if they’re meeting the leader’s approval. Because of this, the team will be disincentivized to seek solutions for any problems they encounter. They don’t want to get in trouble for doing things the “wrong way,” so they’ll inevitably turn to the leader for direction. This creates a culture of neediness instead of competent problem-solvers, AND it puts a lot more work on the leader’s plate, since they’ll have to constantly troubleshoot problems.

Diminished Trust

Micromanaging can erode trust and respect between leaders and their team members. When leaders constantly nitpick and micromanage every detail, employees can feel like their skills and abilities are not trusted or valued. If trust doesn’t exist between leaders and team members, that shakes the foundation of the entire team. Why would team members entrust their manager with sensitive information or confide any struggles or pitfalls to them if trust is absent?

Reduced Job Satisfaction

Nobody likes being micromanaged. It is frustrating, demoralizing, and can make team members feel like they are not trusted or valued. When team members feel like they have no autonomy or control over their work, their job satisfaction can suffer. This can lead to burnout, turnover, and a lack of motivation.

Waste of Time and Resources

Micromanaging is incredibly time-consuming. Leaders who micromanage spend significant amounts of time reviewing work, checking in with team members, and correcting mistakes. This can take away time from other important tasks. Additionally, when team members are prevented from making their own decisions and solving problems, they may come to rely too heavily on their manager. This can be a waste of resources if the manager or leader is needed elsewhere. Micromanaging might scratch your perfectionist itch, but it can have serious negative consequences for your team. No one wants someone constantly looking over their shoulder or telling them precisely what to do all the time. Instead, trust your people. Learn to let go a bit and allow your team to feel empowered, creative, and invested in their work through independent problem-solving and decision-making. By avoiding micromanagement, you can create a more satisfied, motivated, and productive team and foster a culture built on trust and respect.

MARGARET SMITH IS A CAREER COACH, AUTHOR, INSIGHTS® DISCOVERY (AND DEEPER DISCOVERY) LICENSED PRACTITIONER, AND FOUNDER OF UXL. SHE HOSTS WORKSHOPS FOR PEOPLE WHO NEED CAREER OR PERSONAL GUIDANCE. 
CHECK OUT MARGARET’S ONLINE LEADERSHIP COURSE. 

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There’s a reason blockbuster action movies make your pulse quicken, or Pixar animations can make you teary-eyed. Images can have an impact, and visual storytelling can be powerful. In the movie Wall-E, the main character is a robot who doesn’t really speak (aside from chirps and whistles), and yet we feel empathy for this machine.

Fortunately, you don’t have to work in an animation studio to communicate effectively in a visual medium. Here are four ways to make your work more visual (and powerful!):

Cut Words from Your PowerPoints

If a PowerPoint presentation is too text-heavy people either A) get bored or B) focus so much on reading the slides that they don’t pay attention to what you’re saying. One way to avoid this is to cut down on the words in your slides. Instead, use images, graphs, and videos to convey your message. This will help your audience stay engaged and make your presentation more memorable.

Use Infographics

Infographics are a great way to present data in a visually appealing way and can be used to show data trends, compare statistics, or explain complex ideas. Instead of just giving your audience a list of numbers, turn that data into a graphic that tells a story. This can help your audience better understand the information and make it more impactful. There are many online tools (such as Canva) that make it easy to create your own infographics, even if you don’t have a design background.

Tell a Story

Humans have been using stories to communicate for thousands of years, and for good reason. A good story can capture an audience’s attention and keep them engaged. Try to incorporate storytelling into your presentations or reports. This can be done by using anecdotes, case studies, or personal experiences to illustrate your point. Not only will your audience be more interested, but they will also be more likely to remember the information you’re presenting.

Use Color

Color can evoke emotions and influence our moods. Use this to your advantage by incorporating color into your visual content. Choose colors that are appropriate for the message you’re trying to convey. For example, blue can be calming and trustworthy, while red can be energetic and passionate. Colors are also a great way to present a concept—I rely on the colors of the Insights® Discovery color wheel to talk about individuals’ and teams’ communication preferences, ways of processing information, dynamics, and more.

Just make sure to choose colors that are visually appealing, are not too distracting, and make sense with whatever you’re presenting.

Communicating effectively is crucial in today’s world, and using visual storytelling is a powerful way to do so. By following the tips mentioned above, you can create visually appealing content that captures your audience’s attention, conveys your message clearly, and stays with them long after the presentation or report is over. Don’t be afraid to experiment with different visual elements and techniques to find what works best for you and your audience. With practice and persistence, you too can harness the power of visual storytelling to communicate your ideas effectively.

MARGARET SMITH IS A CAREER COACH, AUTHOR, INSIGHTS® DISCOVERY (AND DEEPER DISCOVERY) LICENSED PRACTITIONER, AND FOUNDER OF UXL. SHE HOSTS WORKSHOPS FOR PEOPLE WHO NEED CAREER OR PERSONAL GUIDANCE. 
CHECK OUT MARGARET’S ONLINE LEADERSHIP COURSE. 

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