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March 22, 2023 Why Young Workers Quit (And how to retain them)

A version of this post was first published in September, 2019

Photo by Priscilla Du Preez on Unsplash

I often hear people complaining about the “new generation” of workers as being disloyal to the company. They change jobs like gym shorts and can’t commit to a single business for more than a few years. While that may be true, have you ever stopped to think about WHY that’s the case?

1. Stagnant Wages

For many young and not-so-young (the oldest Millennials are in their 40s now) people, the workplace landscape is MUCH different than it was when Boomers and Gen Xers began their careers. Wages have stagnated and benefits aren’t what they used to be. In many cases, the only way to get a raise is to negotiate one by switching jobs.

Solution?

Make sure your business is competitive. Offer fair wages, and regularly give raises that account for cost-of-living increases. In addition, make sure your list of benefits is attractive and competitive in the industry.

2. Boredom

“But what about their short attention spans!?” you might say. “We can’t seem to capture their interest.”

Sure, job boredom may play a role in Gen Z and Millennial job-hopping, but this is often a preventable woe. If more than one or two of your staff seem bored or distracted, it’s probable there’s something systemic going on. It may be that…

  1. They are not well-suited for their role.
  2. They are so efficient that they complete their workload much faster than previous generations of workers.
  3. They have checked out because they feel like they don’t fit in in the workplace.
  4. They have checked out because they don’t think they have a voice.

Solution?

In all these scenarios, communication can help prevent boredom. Regularly check in with your staff and make sure they are feeling engaged and supported. Give them the space to express how they are feeling and vocalize what they’d like to see changed. Then, work with them to strategize ways to make positive changes.

If your young workers are checking out because they feel like they don’t fit in, counter that by encouraging team-building workshops (consider Insights Discovery as a starting point), after-work outings, or collaborative projects. Pay attention and make sure your seasoned workers are giving the newer workers a voice.

3. Feeling Lost

According to a study of 6,900 young people, Gen Zers are actively seeking mentorship at work. The vast majority (82%) want a boss who cares about them and can “relate to them on issues beyond work.” They also crave guidance during this early and formative stage of their career.

Solution?

The guidance this younger generation is seeking can come in the form of mentorship or sponsorship. Establishing a mentorship program does not have to be terribly involved. Rather, it can be as simple as aligning experienced workers with less experienced workers, advising them to meet once per month, and (if you’re a leader or HR rep) checking in with them every once in a while. I’ve talked about how to start a mentoring cohort in a past blog post, and have also provided steps to find one’s “perfect mentor.”

4. Lack of Freedom

Nobody likes it when others look over their shoulders to supervise their work. It conjures images of elementary school, when teachers had to keep a classroom of rambunctious youngsters in line in addition to teaching multiplication tables. Such treatment in the workplace could induce anxiety and the feeling of being hemmed in. No one works well under that kind of pressure.

Solution?

Your staff are not elementary children and should not be treated as such. It’s a good idea to demonstrate trust in your team by giving them a long leash when it comes to projects, minimizing your involvement, and being open to different styles of working and different solutions.

Another thing: consider allowing your staff to occasionally work from home. We live in a time where technology enables many people to work remotely on at least some of their projects. As long as the work is being done, who cares if they work in their pajamas?

If you have a retention problem, ask yourself if any (or all!) of these four factors are coming into play, and then DO something! I’m here to help.

MARGARET SMITH IS A CAREER COACH, AUTHOR, INSIGHTS® DISCOVERY LICENSED PRACTITIONER, AND FOUNDER OF UXL. SHE HOSTS WORKSHOPS FOR PEOPLE WHO NEED CAREER OR PERSONAL GUIDANCE. 

HER NEW EBOOK IS CALLED A QUICK GUIDE TO COURAGE.

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March 8, 2023 The Courage to Change Your Mind

A version of this post was first published on July 29, 2020.

“Sometimes a hypocrite is nothing more than a man in the process of changing.”

Brandon Sanderson, Author of Oathbringer

It takes courage to admit when you’re wrong, and it takes even more courage to shift your perspective and open yourself to change. The older we get, the easier it is to do things the same way day in, day out. We become entrenched in our beliefs, and it becomes more and more difficult to shift our way of thinking.

In psychology, this “set in your ways” attitude is called mental rigidity.

While it’s normal and healthy to have a routine, mental rigidity goes a step further. It limits how you see the world, makes you less adaptable, and causes you to be closed off to new ideas or perspectives. As one article puts it, “Mental rigidity cuts off the wings you need for imagination, improvement, and exploring new places.”

Mental rigidity can also make it difficult to have empathy–to walk a mile in another’s shoes. We become accustomed to one reality, one way of life, and that becomes the ONLY way. However, different people hail from different backgrounds and have different experiences and beliefs. We can’t necessarily KNOW what another person is thinking or feeling, but we can attempt to UNDERSTAND.

When you introduce yourself to different perspectives, beliefs, and vantage points, you do something a little scary: You open yourself to the possibility that your deeply entrenched attitudes and ways to thinking might change.

Change is never easy, especially when others expect you to remain the same. When you begin to shift your perspective or beliefs, you might face criticism from those who think you’re a “hypocrite” or “wishy-washy.”

I challenge you to stick to your guns and make an honest effort to change, if you believe that change is necessary. Recognize that you are doing yourself a service in the long run, and others’ snide remarks can’t stop you from continuing to learn and grow.

On the same token, be gracious to those who change their minds. No one has all the answers, and it’s okay to learn and evolve. In fact, it is healthy.

So, be fearless. Challenge your assumptions and be bold enough to get uncomfortable. It is only when we dare to step outside our comfort zones that we can truly expand our horizons and potentially change our points of view.

MARGARET SMITH IS A CAREER COACH, AUTHOR, INSIGHTS® DISCOVERY LICENSED PRACTITIONER, AND FOUNDER OF UXL. SHE HOSTS WORKSHOPS FOR PEOPLE WHO NEED CAREER OR PERSONAL GUIDANCE. 

HER NEW EBOOK IS CALLED A QUICK GUIDE TO COURAGE.

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February 15, 2023 8 Ways to Boost Motivation in Winter Months

If you live in the upper part of the Northern Hemisphere, as I do, winter is beginning to drag. When that happens, people tend to get restless and it becomes difficult to focus. During the summer, it’s easy to step away from the computer, take a stroll, or enjoy a cup of coffee or tea on a patio. But during the winter, many of us do not have that kind of outlet.

So, what can you do? How can you stay motivated and productive during the winter months?

Try some of the following 8 tips:

Invest in seasonal hobbies.

You can make the winter months a lot more enjoyable when you invest in seasonal hobbies like skiing, snowshoeing, ice skating, or snowmobiling. Your activities could also take place indoors–perhaps this is the year you learn how to quilt or take your baking hobby to the next level. Find pastimes you enjoy and look forward to each week.

Take a winter vacation.

Travel can be a great way to boost motivation and energy levels. Whether it’s a weekend getaway or a longer vacation, you’re sure to come back feeling refreshed and energized. Read my past blog post on effectively prepping for a vacation so you can truly relax!

Schedule regular outdoor activities.

Despite the cold weather, there are plenty of activities you can do outside. Take a walk each morning, explore a local park with your family, or discover local attractions/events (In Minnesota, we have ice sculptures, ski events, ice mazes/palaces, and even an “art village” that pops up on a frozen lake).

Create a cozy workspace.

Invest in items that make your workspace comfortable and pleasant. Some ideas include a cozy blanket, a warm drink mug, comfortable slippers, and scented candles.

Set small goals and rewards.

Break up larger projects into smaller, achievable goals and set rewards for meeting those goals. This will help you stay motivated and on track with the project even if you’re not feeling especially motivated.

Invest in daylight/SAD lamps.

During the winter months, some people suffer from a lack of daylight, causing them to feel lethargic, unmotivated, or even depressed. Daylight lamps (sometimes known as Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) lamps) can help simulate natural light and provide energy-boosting vitamin D.

Join a support group.

Joining a support group can help reduce stress and provide motivation, especially when you’re feeling stuck. Check with your local community center, churches, or ask some trusted friends.

Take regular breaks.

Breaks can help to refresh and recharge your energy and motivation levels. Whether it’s a 10-minute break or a longer one, taking breaks throughout the day is vital for resetting your focus.

The winter months can be tough for everyone, but with these 8 tips you’ll be prepared to find motivation, stay productive, and make the most of the season!

MARGARET SMITH IS A CAREER COACH, AUTHOR, INSIGHTS® DISCOVERY LICENSED PRACTITIONER, AND FOUNDER OF UXL. SHE HOSTS WORKSHOPS FOR PEOPLE WHO NEED CAREER OR PERSONAL GUIDANCE. 

HER NEW EBOOK IS CALLED A QUICK GUIDE TO COURAGE.

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