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February 14, 2024 Improve Team Dynamics with Insights

You know it when you’re a part of it. A team with a great working relationship communicates well, respects each other, and has a great balance of creativity and strategy. This type of team has excellent rapport, and everyone feels as though they have a voice and their perspectives are respected. When you partner with a team like this, the work seems effortless and you tend to be highly productive.

How do you achieve such a “dream team”?

What can you, as a leader, do to foster the type of environment that produces great teams?

Excellent teams can be built in a number of ways, but in my experience, the very foundation of creating a great team involves getting to know your people at a deep level, and figuring out how they mesh with one another. This may seem like a daunting task, but there is actually a relatively simple tool you can use to develop this type of deep understanding of your team members: Insights® Discovery.

Insights® is a science-based program that helps people gain an intimate understanding of their personal thought patterns, behavioral tendencies, communication preferences, strengths, and more. The data gathered through assessments is analyzed and explained using a very approachable methodology: four colors. The main idea of Insights® is that we all have the capability to embrace all four colors (i.e., personality types), but we tend to prefer one or two colors over the others.

The colors are:

  • Cool Blue (analytical, thoughtful, data and strategy driven)
  • Sunshine Yellow (social, creative, idea and relationship driven)
  • Fiery Red (confident, commanding/natural leader, to-the-point)
  • Earth Green (empathetic, inclusive, pensive)

Though this is an oversimplification of the program, this gives you a general idea of the four colors and how they are associated with personalities (read more about Insights® and communication in this past blog post).

How does Insights® relate to team dynamics?

A person’s Insights® profile not only provides information and insights about how that individual functions (and their ideal environment), but also tells us how individuals relate to others. For example, we might learn that one person tends to embody many “Sunshine Yellow” qualities—they are gregarious, social, and more enthusiastic about idea generation than analytics or strategy. This person might work with someone who leans toward “Cool Blue” and is fairly quiet and reserved, likes to fully analyze the numbers, and wants to explore many options before making a decision.

If these two people do not understand A) how they, personally, tend to operate or B) how their teammate operates, they might start to clash or become frustrated with each other. On the other hand, if these individuals are fully aware of how each person tends to think, behave, and communicate, they can lean into each other’s strengths instead of clashing. Different people can be assigned different roles within the team (don’t put the Sunshine Yellow person behind a desk, crunching numbers all day; and don’t make the Cool Blue person lead a creative brainstorming session!), so everyone can shine.

I have been a Licensed Practitioner of Insights® for about a decade, and I can attest to its effectiveness. Communication and understanding improve, and suddenly teams are talking to each other using the Insights® color language (“My ‘red’ side is really anxious to get this done, but I think we should hear what the ‘blues’ have to say” or “I know this is very ‘green’ of me, but I think we should bring Becky into the conversation and see what she has to say”).

By acknowledging your own tendencies and understanding the thought patterns and preferences of others, you can begin to build a harmonious team that capitalizes on each other’s strengths and recognizes potential trouble spots. If your work team needs to improve its dynamics, consider taking a closer look at Insights®.

MARGARET SMITH IS A CAREER COACH, AUTHOR, INSIGHTS® DISCOVERY (AND DEEPER DISCOVERY) LICENSED PRACTITIONER, AND FOUNDER OF UXL. SHE HOSTS WORKSHOPS FOR PEOPLE WHO NEED CAREER OR PERSONAL GUIDANCE. 
CHECK OUT MARGARET’S ONLINE LEADERSHIP COURSE. 

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August 23, 2023 The Art of Giving and Receiving Feedback: Tips for Managers and Employees

Effective feedback is a two-way street. If you’re providing critiques, it’s important to do so in a way that doesn’t sound accusatory or ends up being demoralizing, but it’s usually not enough to say, “Good work! Keeping doing what you’re doing.” On the other hand, if you’re receiving feedback, it doesn’t pay to put up walls and be overly defensive. BUT it’s also not a good idea to passively take criticism if you A) disagree with it or B) do not completely understand it.

All this is to say, giving and receiving feedback effectively is a balancing act. And it’s easy to tip into negative territory.

How can you keep things positive and aim for improvement? First, let’s talk about giving effective feedback, and then we’ll discuss a few pointers for effectively receiving feedback.

Giving Effective Feedback

Good feedback is sincere, illustrative, and clear. It also provides a clear path or action plan for the recipient to use after the meeting. To achieve this type of feedback, I often turn to the D4 model, designed by Insights® Discovery, which I’ve discussed in detail in a past blog post.

Essentially, the D4 feedback model is a four-step process that encourages specificity while also maintaining a positive tone. Here are the basics:

Data: Start by presenting the facts of the situation or behavior. Avoid generalizations or assumptions, and keep your tone neutral.

Depth of Feeling: Start to explore why you might be feeling a certain way about the data you’ve presented. This step helps to uncover deeper issues that may be contributing to the situation.

Dramatic Interpretation: How are you interpreting the situation? What meaning have you given it?

Do: End with a clear path forward. What would you like to see happen moving forward, and what steps can be taken to get there?

By following these steps, you’ll be able to give feedback that is clear, actionable, and helps the recipient understand how to improve. It’s also important to remember to give positive feedback as well – acknowledging what the recipient is doing well can motivate them to keep up the good work.

Receiving Feedback Effectively

Receiving feedback can be challenging, especially if it’s critical or unexpected. However, it’s important to approach feedback with an open mind and a willingness to learn. To do this, keep the following tips in mind:

  • Listen actively and ask clarifying questions.
  • Avoid becoming defensive or argumentative.
  • If you do not agree with the feedback, politely ask for clarification/elaboration. You may also want to seek additional feedback from others to corroborate the feedback.
  • Identify specific actions you can take to improve. Make sure to go over these action steps with the person providing feedback.
  • Ask for next steps (a follow-up meeting, sending a progress update, etc.).
  • Acknowledge and thank the person for their feedback.
  • Follow through! After the meeting, begin strategizing how you will stay committed to the action steps discussed during the feedback session. This may involve setting goals, seeking additional support or resources, or simply dedicating time and energy to improving your performance.

Remember, feedback is an opportunity for growth and development. By approaching it with an open mind and a positive attitude, you can turn constructive criticism into a valuable tool for personal and professional improvement.

Whether you’re giving or receiving feedback, it’s important to approach it with care and intention. Giving effective feedback involves being specific, sincere, and clear, while also providing a path forward. The D4 feedback model is a useful tool for achieving this balance. On the receiving end, it’s important to actively listen, avoid defensiveness, and identify specific actions to take. Remember, feedback is an opportunity for growth, so approach it with a willingness to learn and modify how you’re currently doing things. The give and take of feedback doesn’t have to be painful or stressful! With effective communication and positive intentions, both parties can walk away satisfied.

MARGARET SMITH IS A CAREER COACH, AUTHOR, INSIGHTS® DISCOVERY (AND DEEPER DISCOVERY) LICENSED PRACTITIONER, AND FOUNDER OF UXL. SHE HOSTS WORKSHOPS FOR PEOPLE WHO NEED CAREER OR PERSONAL GUIDANCE. 
CHECK OUT MARGARET’S ONLINE LEADERSHIP COURSE. 

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April 26, 2023 Feeling Stuck? Here’s how to make that big decision

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Have you ever found yourself at a turning point when you’ve had to make a decision? Maybe that decision was major (switching career paths, moving to a new city) or maybe it was less major but still important (deciding who to invite to a gathering, considering whether to take on a project). Whatever the case, making decisions can be difficult.

When it comes time to choose, we might freeze up and not know which way to turn. Sometimes we end up sticking firmly within our comfort zone, because we’re too nervous to take the plunge and commit to a new course of action.

To get out of a decision-making rut, try tapping into one or more different proven methods to make the best choice possible. Here are five techniques to try:

Map Out Possibilities

When you feel overwhelmed by choice, it can be helpful to create a visual representation of all your options. Mind maps are a great tool for this, as they allow you to see the paths before you in an organized and comprehensive manner. A pros and cons list is another useful tool for sorting out your thoughts and getting an organized view of your options.

Learn how to create an effective mind map by taking look at my past blog post on the topic.

Ask “What’s the Worst That Could Happen?”

When you plan for the worst-case scenario, you can worry less about making a mistake and start to realize that most of the time the consequences of a poor decision are not as dire as you might fear. Ask yourself, “What is the absolute worst outcome?”, and you will be more likely to act with confidence and a clear mind. Additionally, you’ll be better able to prepare for future “What ifs” if you consider possible adverse outcomes.

I’ve written more about this concept in my “How Bad Could It Be?” blog post.

Use the “Best Friend Test”

Before making an important decision, ask yourself, “What would I tell my best friend to do in this scenario?” This is a test author Daniel Pink recommends in a short, informative video. He says that asking this question is effective because it changes the perspective of the scenario. You certainly wouldn’t want to lead your best friend astray, so the advice you give to them should apply to yourself as well.

Journal About It

Writing is a process of self-discovery, and writing about your decision-making process can offer valuable insight into what you truly want. Keep a running log of your thoughts, feelings, and ideas about the issue at hand and explore different angles.

Get Support

When facing a difficult decision, sometimes it helps to turn to a few trusted advisors for input. Ask one or two people you trust for advice, but be careful not to get “advice overload” where you ask too many people about a topic. As with all advice, take these suggestions with a grain of salt.

Making a decision can be hard, but by tapping into different methods and taking a mindful approach, it’s possible to make the best choice. Taking the time to use these techniques can help you gain clarity and make the best choice for yourself.

Good luck and happy decision making!

MARGARET SMITH IS A CAREER COACH, AUTHOR, INSIGHTS® DISCOVERY (AND DEEPER DISCOVERY) LICENSED PRACTITIONER, AND FOUNDER OF UXL. SHE HOSTS WORKSHOPS FOR PEOPLE WHO NEED CAREER OR PERSONAL GUIDANCE. 
CHECK OUT MARGARET’S ONLINE LEADERSHIP COURSE. 

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