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February 5, 2025 6 Compassionate Leadership Actions

I am a big proponent of heart-led leadership. So many leadership courses, books, and webinars teach us that leaders have to be firm, competent, excellent communicators, and assertive. While those traits can be helpful in leadership, I would put a different trait above them: compassion.

When people think about compassion and kindness in leadership, they may think that means the leader is soft or a “pushover.” In my experience, however, kindness does not automatically mean weakness. It is very possible to be both kind and assertive. It is possible to genuinely care about your people and create firm boundaries and expectations.

Instead of a weakness, I see kindness as a superpower. When you take the time to truly get to know your people, listen to them, and offer genuine compassion and respect, you foster a positive work environment where people want to show up and do good work. When people feel that they are part of a caring team, they will want to put their best foot forward, meet deadlines, and perform at their peak. They’re motivated to do better, because they know the company’s leadership has a vested interest in them and their success.

To establish yourself as a kind, caring leader, you can begin by taking a few action steps that convey your heart-led leadership style. Here are 6 suggestions:

Schedule One-on-Ones

Even busy leaders can find fifteen or twenty minutes to meet one-on-one with a team member. Taking the time to check in with someone individually will not only convey that you care, but will also provide some valuable time for you to get to know the person across the table on a personal level. This can be difficult to achieve in group settings, especially if the person is not terribly open or outspoken.

Get to Know Your People

When engaging in one-on-ones, it’s a good idea to ask a few “get to know you” questions. Start learning about your team members’ backgrounds, families, pets, and interests, and be sure to touch on these things in subsequent meetings (“How is your mom? Is she feeling any better since her accident?”). If you need help remembering details about others, try creating a spreadsheet dedicated to tracking information about each team member—the name of their kids, the type of dog they have, etc. Few people have a perfect memory, and there’s no shame in using a tool to help yourself out.

Open Up

When you’re getting to know others, it is important to reciprocate. Any relationship, including work relationships, are healthiest when they are a two-way street. Offer information about yourself when it seems relevant and appropriate. For example, if your team member is talking about an upcoming vacation, you might tell them a little about your experience visiting that area, or you could talk about your own upcoming trip.

Ask Good Questions (and Listen!)

Asking good questions is an art. When sitting down with someone, it’s important to not just talk at them or ask yes/no questions. Instead, ask open-ended questions that prompt a dialogue. These types of questions can help you get to know the other person and will help you gauge the temperature of the workplace (Are tempers hot? Has enthusiasm for a project or client cooled?).

But asking questions isn’t enough. It is also critical to listen to the answers and attempt to understand the other person’s perspective. If you’re unsure about what someone is saying, or you need more details, be sure to ask follow-up questions. Alternatively, you could repeat back what you think you heard by saying, “It sounds like you’re saying XYZ, is that correct?”

Show Genuine Appreciation

Pay attention to your people and show them appreciation whenever they go above and beyond. Call out outstanding performance, recognize achievements, or write out a thank you card. These small acts can make an enormous difference.

Take Action to Improve the Workplace

When sitting down with your people, you might discover that they are unhappy with certain aspects of the workplace. If that’s the case, it is imperative to take steps to create change. You don’t want to be the type of person who is all talk and no action. Rather, if you are genuinely committed to being a positive presence, that means taking meaningful action to improve the workplace and the lives of the people who work for you.

Kindness and compassion are not incompatible with strong leadership. Rather, it can help improve morality, foster a better work environment, and create an energized atmosphere in the office. How might the modern workplace transform if all leaders chose to be kind?

MARGARET SMITH IS A CAREER COACH, AUTHOR, INSIGHTS® DISCOVERY (AND DEEPER DISCOVERY) LICENSED PRACTITIONER, AND FOUNDER OF UXL. SHE HOSTS WORKSHOPS FOR PEOPLE WHO NEED CAREER OR PERSONAL GUIDANCE. 
CHECK OUT MARGARET’S ONLINE LEADERSHIP COURSE. 

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February 7, 2024 Managing Remote Teams: Tips and Best Practices for Leaders

Nearly four years after the start of the 2020 COVID pandemic, the workplace seems to be permanently changed. Although some companies have required its people to return to work full-time, many have continued to allow working from home (WFH) at least a few days each week.

And why not? For many people, this way of working is advantageous. People may have an easier time concentrating at home (less background chatter and people popping in and out of your cubicle), they might feel more at ease, and they often have more control over their time. Working from home can be especially helpful for parents or caretakers, who regularly have to rush around at odd hours of the day. What’s more, a study by Owl Labs shows that, “On average, those who work from home spend 10 minutes less a day being unproductive, work one more day a week, and are 47% more productive.”

However, WFH comes with its own set of challenges. A work team might be less unified or less comfortable with each other than if they were working together in person. Leaders might feel that they have less control over their people, or they may have trouble understanding precisely what their team is working on. Additionally, morale can be difficult for leaders to gauge when their team is working remotely.

How can company leaders face these challenges head on? Here are a few tips and best practices:

Encourage communication

Foster open and frequent communication channels within the remote team. Use video conferences, instant messaging, and project management tools to ensure everyone is on the same page. While communication is vital, it is also important to make sure you’re not micromanaging or imposing on others’ boundaries (such as expecting an email reply after normal work hours). Communicate clearly and regularly, but be respectful.

Set clear expectations

Clearly define goals, deadlines, and deliverables for the team. Provide detailed instructions and guidelines to minimize confusion and ensure productivity. Create a shared understanding of what success looks like for each project or task. This will help team members stay focused and aligned with the overall objectives. Be transparent about priorities and any changes that may arise. Regularly check in with team members to provide feedback and address any concerns or roadblocks.

Promote collaboration

Encourage collaboration among team members, even when they are not physically together. Create opportunities for brainstorming, problem-solving, and sharing ideas. Foster a sense of belonging and teamwork by organizing virtual team-building activities or social events. Collaboration tools such as shared documents or virtual whiteboards can facilitate this process.

Check in regularly

Regular check-ins can ensure employee well-being and address any issues they may be facing. This can be done through one-on-one meetings or team check-ins. Show genuine care and interest in the work and personal lives of your people, and offer support and resources to help them navigate any challenges they may encounter while working remotely.

Provide necessary resources

Ensure that your remote team has the necessary resources to effectively work from home. This includes access to reliable internet connection, appropriate software and tools, and any additional equipment they might need. Provide training and support to help your team members maximize their productivity and adapt to remote work. Stay updated on the latest technology and tools that can enhance remote collaboration and efficiency.

Establish a supportive culture

Foster a positive and inclusive remote work culture by promoting empathy, trust, and work-life balance. It is possible to encourage team members to support and uplift each other, even from a distance. As a leader, you can recognize and celebrate their achievements and milestones, offer flexibility, encourage self-care and stress management, and create opportunities for team members to connect on a personal level, such as virtual coffee breaks or team lunches. And don’t forget to lead by example, demonstrating a healthy work-life balance and prioritizing well-being.

Managing remote teams requires leaders to adapt to the unique challenges and opportunities that come with remote work. With a little effort and a smart strategy in place, leaders can effectively lead remote teams and ensure their success. The modern landscape has permanently changed; how will YOU adapt?

MARGARET SMITH IS A CAREER COACH, AUTHOR, INSIGHTS® DISCOVERY (AND DEEPER DISCOVERY) LICENSED PRACTITIONER, AND FOUNDER OF UXL. SHE HOSTS WORKSHOPS FOR PEOPLE WHO NEED CAREER OR PERSONAL GUIDANCE. 
CHECK OUT MARGARET’S ONLINE LEADERSHIP COURSE. 

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May 17, 2023 How to Beat Summertime Procrastination: 6 Tips

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As we tiptoe into summer in the Upper Midwest, it can become increasingly difficult to concentrate. Who wants to be stuck inside staring at a screen when the weather is mild and sunny? Who wants to enter information into a spreadsheet when you could be riding your bike, barbequing with your family, or simply taking a walk in the fresh air? The procrastination bug can bite hard when you’re resistant to the tasks in front of you! To help beat summertime procrastination, try any or all of the following 6 tips:

1. Take a midday break

Taking a midday break is a great way to recharge your brain and get moving. Take a 30-minute break to go for a walk, ride your bike, or simply sit outside with a good book or cup of tea and enjoy the sunshine. Getting outside can boost your mood and energy, making it easier to focus when you return to work.

2. Work during off-hours

If you’re finding it difficult to concentrate during the day, try working during off-hours. Wake up early and work before the sun rises, or work in the evening when you’re not as tempted to go outside. This way, you can take advantage of the sunshine during the day (at least for a few hours) without feeling guilty for not working.

3. Break tasks into smaller pieces

Breaking tasks into smaller pieces can help make them feel more manageable. Instead of trying to finish a big project in one day, break it into smaller tasks that you can complete over a few days. This way, you’ll feel more accomplished and less overwhelmed.

4. Set a timer

Setting a timer can help you stay focused and avoid distractions. Set a timer for 25 minutes and work on a task without any interruptions. Once the timer goes off, take a 5-minute break to stretch, grab a snack, or check your phone. Repeat this process until you finish the task. Remember, there’s really no such thing as multitasking! Focusing on one project at a time is a better use of your time AND produces better results.

5. Create a summer schedule

Creating a schedule can help you stay on track and make time for both work and play. Set aside specific times each day for work, exercise, and leisure activities. This way, you’ll have a clear idea of what you need to do each day and won’t feel guilty when you take time off to enjoy the summer weather.

6. Find an accountability partner

Having an accountability partner can help you stay motivated and on track. Find someone who shares your goals or is working on a similar project and check in with each other regularly. This way, you can hold each other accountable and offer support and encouragement along the way.

By trying these 6 tips, you can beat summertime procrastination and make the most of your summer. Remember, it’s important to take breaks, stay motivated, and enjoy the sunshine while it lasts. Happy (almost) summer!

MARGARET SMITH IS A CAREER COACH, AUTHOR, INSIGHTS® DISCOVERY (AND DEEPER DISCOVERY) LICENSED PRACTITIONER, AND FOUNDER OF UXL. SHE HOSTS WORKSHOPS FOR PEOPLE WHO NEED CAREER OR PERSONAL GUIDANCE. 
CHECK OUT MARGARET’S ONLINE LEADERSHIP COURSE. 

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