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August 30, 2023 Compassionate Leadership: Balancing Empathy with Accountability

When it comes to leadership, don’t mistake kindness for weakness. It is still possible (and often more effective) to lead with your heart, as well as your head. Compassionate leadership is NOT about giving in to everyone’s whims, going easy on deadlines, or letting subpar work slide. It’s not about letting people slack off whenever they please. Rather, it’s about empathizing with your team, communicating openly, and building a mutual understanding and a plan that works for everyone.

You can practice compassionate leadership while setting firm standards and boundaries. We’re not talking about soft leadership; we’re talking about heart-led leadership. There’s a huge difference.

How do you achieve compassionate leadership while still maintaining a strong leadership presence? How can you balance heart-led decisions with practical, data- and strategy-driven decisions? It may seem like a tricky balancing act, but there are several steps you can take to start practicing compassionate, yet strong, leadership. Let’s talk about 4 ways to get started…

Get to Know Your Team

You may think you know your team members, but how well do you really know them? Do you know if someone is caring for a sick parent or raising young kids? Is someone struggling with chronic health issues? Or mental health afflictions? Is someone going through a divorce? Or facing biases or microaggressions in the workplace?

Once you know what a person is going through, you can be more empathetic with their situation and begin offering them the appropriate resources. Maybe they would benefit from a more flexible schedule, or talking with a mental health professional, or joining an Employee Resource Group (ERG). Whatever the case, you can help be a conduit for their success.

Establish Trust

It is difficult to get to know your team members on a deeper level if you do not take the time to establish trust. In my experience, one of the best ways to do this is by engaging in regular one-on-one conversations with each team member. Use this time to listen to their ideas, provide feedback, and offer support where needed. By doing this consistently, you can build rapport with your team and show them that you are invested in their success. Additionally, be transparent about your decisions and why you are making them. This will help your team understand your thought processes and trust that you have their best interests at heart.

Communicate Effectively

Communication is key in any type of leadership, but it’s especially important when practicing compassionate leadership. Make sure you are communicating frequently and clearly with your team. This includes not only giving feedback and direction, but also actively listening to your team members. When they feel heard and understood, they are more likely to feel valued and motivated to work towards common goals. Additionally, consider using different communication methods to reach team members with different preferences or needs. For example, some team members may prefer in-person meetings while others may prefer email or instant messaging.

Effective communication also entails setting clear expectations. Make sure your team knows exactly what is expected of them and what success looks like. Set regular check-ins to ensure everyone is on the same page and that progress is being made. If expectations are not being met, have an open conversation about why that is, then work together to identify ways to improve.

Lead by Example

Compassionate leadership starts at the top. As a leader, you have the responsibility to model the behaviors and values you want to see in your team. This means demonstrating empathy, kindness, and respect in all your interactions with team members and colleagues. It also means being accountable for your actions and decisions, and admitting when you make mistakes. When you lead by example, you set the tone for the entire team and create a culture of compassion and trust. Remember that your team is paying attention to your actions, so make sure you are modeling the behaviors you want to see in them.

Compassionate leadership is about balancing empathy and kindness with setting clear expectations and maintaining accountability. Too often, we show up for work, do whatever tasks need to be done, and sign off for the day without pausing to think about the people around us. Take the time to get to know them, practice some empathy, and focus on clear communications. Your leadership actions can create a culture of positivity and accountability that will benefit everyone on your team, including yourself.

MARGARET SMITH IS A CAREER COACH, AUTHOR, INSIGHTS® DISCOVERY (AND DEEPER DISCOVERY) LICENSED PRACTITIONER, AND FOUNDER OF UXL. SHE HOSTS WORKSHOPS FOR PEOPLE WHO NEED CAREER OR PERSONAL GUIDANCE. 
CHECK OUT MARGARET’S ONLINE LEADERSHIP COURSE. 

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May 24, 2023 6 Steps to Creating an Environment of Accountability

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As a leader, it’s important to foster a culture of accountability within your team. Holding your team accountable does not have to come at the expense of compassion or empathy. In fact, heart-led leadership can be very powerful, even when you have to draw a line in the sand at times and hold your people accountable for their words, behaviors, and actions. Here are six steps you can take to create a culture of accountability within your team:

Step 1: Clearly Define Expectations

The first step to creating a culture of accountability is to clearly define expectations. Make sure everyone on your team knows what is expected of them, whether in terms of individual goals or team goals (make sure everyone is on board with a shared vision). This can be done through one-on-one meetings or team meetings where expectations are laid out and discussed.

Step 2: Set SMART Goals

Setting SMART (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, Time-bound) goals is an effective way to hold your team accountable. These goals should be aligned with company objectives and should be reviewed regularly to ensure progress is being made. The “M” in SMART goals is particularly important because it ensures that progress can be measured and tracked.

Step 3: Provide Ongoing Feedback

Regular feedback is key to holding your team accountable since it allows you to address any issues early on and make adjustments as needed. Make sure to provide both positive and constructive feedback on a regular basis to keep your team on track. This feedback can be given individually or, if appropriate, during team meetings. I usually recommend using the D4 model, which stands for Data, Depth of Feeling, Dramatic Interpretation, and Do. To learn more about this model, view my past blog post on the topic.

Step 4: Lead by Example

As a leader, it’s important to lead by example. This means holding yourself accountable as well as your team. Make sure you are following through on your commitments and are meeting your own goals. This will set the tone for your team and help create a culture of accountability.

Step 5: Encourage Ownership

Encouraging ownership is another effective way to create a culture of accountability. When someone feels like they truly have a stake in a project AND the power to make a significant contribution, they are more likely to take ownership and be accountable for the outcome. Give your team members autonomy and empower them to make decisions and take responsibility for their work.

Step 6: Celebrate Successes

Finally, celebrate successes! Recognize when your team members meet their goals, achieve a milestone, or exceed expectations. This creates a positive team culture and reinforces the importance of accountability. Celebrating successes can be done through verbal recognition, awards, or team outings.

Creating a culture of accountability is key to the success of any team. By following these six steps, you can start creating a culture of accountability that is both compassionate and effective (you can have both!). Foster growth and success for your team and your organization through intelligent accountability practices.

MARGARET SMITH IS A CAREER COACH, AUTHOR, INSIGHTS® DISCOVERY (AND DEEPER DISCOVERY) LICENSED PRACTITIONER, AND FOUNDER OF UXL. SHE HOSTS WORKSHOPS FOR PEOPLE WHO NEED CAREER OR PERSONAL GUIDANCE. 
CHECK OUT MARGARET’S ONLINE LEADERSHIP COURSE. 

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