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We are a society of instant gratification and quick rewards. We order a package from Amazon, it arrives within a day or two. We want to watch a show, we switch to our streaming platform of choice and tune in. We want a meal, we order online and receive it at our doorstep. With so many ways to instantly satisfy our needs and wants, many of us have forgotten how to practice patience.

Patience is a crucial attribute in both our personal and business lives. It can help us weather storms, create robust strategies, and maintain a sense of calm. When we’re patient, we also tend to be gentler and more civil to those around us, from the overworked barista to the co-worker who is juggling multiple responsibilities.

In my experience, patience is absolutely an asset when it comes to business. A patient leader…

…takes the time to get to know their team members.

…invests in skill-building training.

…collects data and gives projects a chance before changing course.

…strategizes and considers options before jumping in.

…recognizes that development and progress may take time (and celebrates small victories along the way).

Believe it or not, patience is a skill you can develop. Some people may be innately less patient than others—looking at you “red energy” and “yellow energy” folks (see my post on Insights® Discovery if you don’t get that reference)! However, all people can improve their patience. I suggest building patience with the following four steps:

Develop Awareness

The first step to becoming more patient is to recognize when you’re being inpatient or impulsive. Start noticing when you’re being short with others, or you’re tempted to make a decision or take an action before you have all the information. Once you start becoming aware of your own impatience, you can begin to correct this tendency.

Start Practicing

Start practicing patience in small, daily interactions. Pause before reacting to minor inconveniences, give people more time to express themselves fully, and allow projects to unfold at their natural pace. Over time, these small adjustments will become habits, and you’ll find yourself naturally more patient in various situations.

Challenge Yourself to Go One Step Further

After practicing daily patience, it’s a good idea to challenge yourself to apply it to more significant situations. When faced with a tough decision or a challenging project, consciously choose to approach it with patience. Allow the process to unfold without rushing to conclusions or taking shortcuts. When you’re tempted to give into an impulse say to yourself, “I can go just one step further.” That might mean waiting another day, asking one more person for advice, or doing just one more hour of research.

Recognize This Takes Time

As you’re developing your patience, you’ll have to (ironically) be patient with your progress! Developing a new skill takes time and consistent effort. Celebrate the small victories along the way, acknowledging that progress won’t happen overnight. But with concerted effort, you will eventually build this skill.

Patience is a virtue that can enhance your leadership skills, decision-making abilities, and overall well-being. Remember, by developing your patience, you’re not just benefiting yourself but also fostering a more positive and productive environment for those around you. Embrace the journey of building patience and enjoy the transformative impact it can have on your personal and professional life.

MARGARET SMITH IS A CAREER COACH, AUTHOR, INSIGHTS® DISCOVERY (AND DEEPER DISCOVERY) LICENSED PRACTITIONER, AND FOUNDER OF UXL. SHE HOSTS WORKSHOPS FOR PEOPLE WHO NEED CAREER OR PERSONAL GUIDANCE. 
CHECK OUT MARGARET’S ONLINE LEADERSHIP COURSE. 

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With spring in the air, the time is right for a little refresh. For many people, that means deep cleaning your house, getting rid of rarely used items, or reorganizing the cupboards…but what about spring cleaning your personal brand?

A personal brand is a reflection of who you are professionally, how you present yourself online and offline, and how you are perceived by others. It’s about ensuring your values, skills, and personality shine through consistently in all your interactions.

However, a personal brand can go stale. You might change your goals, perspectives, or outlooks, which necessitates a change in personal brand. But it may be a challenge to get people to stop seeing the old you and start seeing the present version of yourself. How do you overhaul your personal brand and start putting forward the new you?

Here are 6 suggestions for spring cleaning your personal brand:

Clarify Your Goals

To begin reworking your personal brand, it is essential to have a good understanding of your goals and aspirations. Where do you want to go? What do you want to achieve? A personal brand can help get you there by aligning your values, skills, and personality with your objectives. By clarifying your goals, you can tailor your personal brand to reflect who you are now and where you want to be in the future, ensuring consistency and authenticity across all interactions.

Be Your Best Authentic Self

Revamping your personal brand does not mean you’re inauthentic or flighty. Rather, it is simply a way to step into a different version of yourself—a version that reflects your growth, goals, and values at this moment. Embrace your authenticity and let it shine through in your personal brand.

Update Your Profiles

Ensuring that your online presence aligns with your current personal brand is crucial. Make sure to update your profiles (LinkedIn and other professional networking platforms) and website with fresh content, new achievements, and any changes to reflect your updated goals and values. This will help reinforce your professional image and showcase the most current version of yourself. Regularly reviewing and revising your online presence is a key step in maintaining a relevant and consistent personal brand.

Update Your Responsibilities

If certain aspects of your work match your goals better than others, it’s prudent to ask for responsibilities or projects that align more closely with your objectives. By taking on new tasks that better reflect your current goals and values, you can strengthen your personal brand and demonstrate your commitment to growth and development.

Communicate

You do not have to undergo your brand revamp in secret. In fact, it’s a good idea to talk with your boss, mentor/sponsor, or even your co-workers (if appropriate) about the changes you’d like to make to support and reinforce the vision for your new personal brand. Remember to be tactful when asking for new responsibilities or aligning your roles to better match your evolving personal brand. By communicating openly with your colleagues and superiors about your goals and desired changes, you can foster understanding and support for your professional growth.

Own It

Although it may not come naturally at first, it is crucial that you “own” your new personal brand and be confident in its representation. Stand tall in your values, skills, and personality, and let them shine through in your day-to-day interactions. Consistency and authenticity in your personal brand will help others see and recognize the new you. Embrace the growth, the change, and the evolution that come with refreshing your personal brand.

Remember, your personal brand is a powerful tool that showcases your unique strengths and qualities. It’s about being true to yourself while also adapting and evolving as needed. Allow your personal brand to be a dynamic representation of who you are today, constantly aligning with your current aspirations and values.

MARGARET SMITH IS A CAREER COACH, AUTHOR, INSIGHTS® DISCOVERY (AND DEEPER DISCOVERY) LICENSED PRACTITIONER, AND FOUNDER OF UXL. SHE HOSTS WORKSHOPS FOR PEOPLE WHO NEED CAREER OR PERSONAL GUIDANCE. 
CHECK OUT MARGARET’S ONLINE LEADERSHIP COURSE. 

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If an employee is not quite rising to your workplace’s standards, that can be a delicate situation. On the one hand, if you critique the person’s work too harshly, they may become discouraged or frustrated, or they may even quit. On the other hand, if you do not underscore the importance of the situation, or if your feedback is not specific enough, that person might continue to operate in the same manner, and little will change.

How do you navigate this tightrope-like situation? How can you provide adequate feedback, guidance, and resources to help improve an employee’s performance? Here are three ways to make a meaningful difference:

Give Excellent Feedback

Unfortunately, it is incredibly easy to flub feedback. The feedback might be too vague, too harsh, or lacking a sense of urgency. When providing feedback to underperforming employees, I suggest keeping three things in mind:

1. Make It Specific

It isn’t enough to tell someone they need to “step it up” or “make strides.” Instead, give specific feedback on what the person is doing right and what they need to improve. It helps to open with the positive (“Sandy, your people skills continue to impress me. Customers say you’re easy to talk to and an excellent communicator”) and then move into the areas of improvement (“However, our numbers show that you have trouble closing the sale. Let’s talk about some of the potential roadblocks you’re facing…”).

2. Set Goals

When working on a specific area to improve, it is helpful to set SMART goals. SMART is an acronym that stands for:

Specific – the goals should be clear and well-defined.

Measurable – the goals should have measurable criteria for success.

Achievable – the goals should be attainable and realistic.

Relevant – the goals should be aligned with the employee’s role and the overall objectives of the organization.

Time-bound – the goals should have a specific time frame for completion.

By setting SMART goals, you provide the employee with a clear roadmap for improvement and a way to track their progress. This approach helps to ensure the employee understands what is expected of them and can work towards achieving those goals.

3. Create a Check-In Plan

It’s helpful to create a plan for regular check-ins with the employee. This allows you to monitor their progress, address any concerns or challenges they may be facing, and provide ongoing support and feedback. The frequency of the check-ins can vary depending on the employee’s needs and the urgency of the situation. It’s important to create a supportive and non-judgmental environment during these check-ins, so the employee feels comfortable discussing their progress and any obstacles they may be encountering.

Facilitate a Mentorship

Mentorship can be a valuable tool for improving an employee’s work performance. Pairing the underperforming employee with a more experienced and successful colleague can provide guidance, support, and valuable insights. The mentor can share their own experiences, offer advice, and help the employee develop the necessary skills and knowledge to excel. This one-on-one relationship allows for personalized guidance and can greatly enhance the employee’s professional growth. A mentorship program can be formal or informal, depending on the needs and preferences of the individuals involved.

Provide Necessary Resources

To support an employee in improving their work performance, it’s essential to provide them with the necessary resources. This could include training programs, workshops, online courses, or access to relevant materials and tools. By equipping the employee with the resources they need, you empower them to acquire new skills and knowledge that can enhance their performance. Additionally, offering ongoing learning opportunities demonstrates your commitment to their professional development and shows you are invested in helping them succeed.

By following a few intentional strategies, you can begin to make meaningful improvement in an employee’s work performance. Remember, communication is key, and it’s hard to know what your employee needs until you take the time to sit down and talk with them about their performance. Frame this an opportunity for growth and development, rather than a punishment. Creating a supportive environment can help foster continuous improvements and aid employees in reaching their full potential.

MARGARET SMITH IS A CAREER COACH, AUTHOR, INSIGHTS® DISCOVERY (AND DEEPER DISCOVERY) LICENSED PRACTITIONER, AND FOUNDER OF UXL. SHE HOSTS WORKSHOPS FOR PEOPLE WHO NEED CAREER OR PERSONAL GUIDANCE. 
CHECK OUT MARGARET’S ONLINE LEADERSHIP COURSE. 

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